Growth Beyond the Stage

By Megan Kerl

Through competing, I have learned that growth often begins in the most uncomfortable moments. When I first stepped into the Miss America world, I had no prior experience. I had no idea how to do my makeup, walk in heels, or speak confidently in front of a crowd. Everything felt unfamiliar and intimidating. Competing also marked the very first time I wore an evening gown, something that felt especially meaningful to me after missing out on prom because of COVID-19 during my graduation year in 2020. What once felt overwhelming slowly became empowering as I learned new skills and began to gain confidence in myself.

Beyond stage presence and physical preparation, competing has taught me discipline, resilience, and self-belief. Every practice and preparation has pushed me further outside my comfort zone. I learned that confidence is not something you are simply born with, it is something built through persistence, hard work, and the decision to keep showing up even when you doubt yourself. With each experience I have grown in my own sense of strength and self-awareness.  

One of the most meaningful lessons I have gained through competing is the true meaning of sisterhood. I have found some of the most supportive and encouraging friendships. The girls around me celebrated my successes, lifted me up during difficult moments, and reminded me that we were all growing together. Being surrounded by women who genuinely support and believe in one another has shown me just how powerful friendships can be. 

What I have learned through competing has extended far beyond the stage. As an interior designer, I now find myself applying many of these same skills in my professional life. Presenting design concepts to clients, communicating my vision clearly, and carrying myself with confidence in meetings all draw from what I learned through the Miss America Organization. It has taught me how to articulate ideas under pressure, trust my creative instincts, and show up with confidence in spaces where I am constantly being challenged to grow.

Looking back, competing has given me so much more than titles, gowns, or stage experience. It has given me confidence, lifelong memories, and a community that has helped shape who I am today. Most importantly, it has taught me that some of the greatest growth happens when you step into something new, even when you don’t feel fully ready. I’m excited to see what the next chapter has in store for me.

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Megan Kerl is the current Miss Bernalillo County (NM). You can follow her on her Instagram.

This is her second guest blog for Section 36 Forevers. Find her other one here.